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There are weddings that are beautiful, and then there are weddings that completely shift the energy of a room the second you walk in. Lindsey and Brendan’s wedding at Wee Burn Beach Club was exactly that kind of celebration- colorful and overflowing with personality from beginning to end. Lindsey’s beaming smile was unforgettable. Her design […]

Lindsey & Brendan’s Wee Burn Beach Club Wedding in Rowayton, CT

May 22, 2026

If you’re searching for the best Connecticut wedding venues, you’ve likely realized there are so many beautiful options throughout the state, from elegant estates and historic mansions to luxury tented properties and refined country clubs. As a Connecticut wedding planner and Connecticut wedding designer, one of the most important parts of the planning process is […]

Top Connecticut Wedding Venues | A Planner’s Guide

May 14, 2026

Shannon & Joseph’s wedding at Waveny House was the kind of day that feels less like an event and more like a living, breathing reflection of two people deeply in sync. Every detail felt like them with lots of vintage items from their own collection as decor. From the very beginning, their vision was clear: […]

A Vintage Waveny House Wedding in New Canaan, CT

April 29, 2026

As a Full Service Planner in Connecticut we’ve seen plenty of weddings. The ones that feel effortless and cohesive are thoughtfully planned with intention and led by vendors who know how to execute. Have you ever been to a wedding where you didn’t know where to go or what was happening next? Were speeches announced […]

Why the Most Beautiful Weddings Feel Effortless and What It Actually Takes to Get There

April 9, 2026

A Palm Royale inspired birthday celebration transformed a Connecticut country club into “Georgie’s Supper Club,” featuring custom design, casino experiences, and elevated guest moments. When interior designer Alexander Reid approached us with his vision for a Palm Royale inspired birthday celebration, we immediately knew this would be something special, the goal was not just to […]

Georgie’s Supper Club: A Palm Royale Inspired Transformation at Litchfield Country Club

March 26, 2026

There are wedding days that feel cinematic from the very first moment Katie & Harry’s celebration at Le Chateau, one of the most iconic Westchester wedding venues, was one of them. Set against the timeless architecture of this historic estate, their November wedding unfolded with an effortless blend of romance, family legacy, and elevated design […]

An Elegant Le Chateau Wedding in South Salem, NY | Katie & Harry

December 3, 2025

Understanding the Roles That Shape Your Wedding Day Experience Planning a wedding comes with many moving pieces, and a common questions couples ask is: What’s the difference between a wedding planner and a venue coordinator? Although both roles sound similar, they serve different purposes and understanding these differences is essential for setting up a seamless, […]

Planner vs. Venue Coordinator: What’s the Difference?

December 3, 2025

An Early Autumn Wedding at Smith Farm Gardens When it feels like changing leaves + a little sweetness. This wedding at Smith Farm Gardens unfolded in an early autumn setting that made the property feel even more magical. Guests arrived through a whimsical tent entrance, greeted by blossoms both inside and out. The Design Details […]

Smith Farm Gardens Wedding Planner | Early Autumn Connecticut Wedding

September 24, 2025

September in Connecticut brings the perfect balance of golden light and crisp air. For Em + M, that atmosphere set the stage for a weekend full of love, celebration, and unforgettable details. Their wedding at The Litchfield Inn embraced all the charm of New England with personal touches that made it uniquely theirs. A Tuscan-Inspired […]

Litchfield Inn Wedding Planner | Em & M’s Litchfield, CT Wedding

September 19, 2025

When you think of a Connecticut wedding with coastal New England charm, you picture rolling lawns, timeless details, and a warm, inviting atmosphere. Brianna & Nick’s celebration at Smith Farm Gardens brought all of that to life with added unforgettable, one-of-a-kind touches that made the day purely their own. This was a wedding that perfectly […]

Smith Farm Gardens Wedding in East Haddam, CT | Coastal Meets Garden

September 18, 2025